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I stop having everything or even anything worth getting up for when I start thinking what I’ve got isn’t enough. I can choose to love what I have or not. But when I do love it, that is all there is. That is everything.
Read MoreTo me the short definition of love is something you do. Not necessarily something you feel. Love is a verb.
Read MoreA relationship is bigger when two people bring their whole selves to it and breath fresh air through, when the space they take up forces the relationship to expand. Relationships do not feed themselves.
Read MoreYou’d have to be living under a rock in the U.S. not to have heard about the debate over gay marriage and gay rights. In the last week I’ve received no fewer than a dozen emails asking for comments about the debate or advice about how to deal in a family when someone comes out. No matter which side of the debate you’re on, it probably feels like an issue of morality to you. Some feel it’s morally wrong to “be” gay, while others feel it’s even more morally wrong to discriminate against gay people. The question in the debate that always irritates me the most is this, “Is being gay a choice?”
Read MoreWhen you grasp the concept of manipulation for what it is, a human reflex instead of an act of force you can relax around it rather than fight against it. You don’t have to put up walls. You can put on music and dance. No villains. No victims. Just souls playing together trying to be happy.
Read MoreIf you let go of wishing things were different and start to embrace this as the new normal, you might still feel the pain, but the suffering will subside.
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