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Posted by on Dec 30, 2013 in relationships | 1 comment

My Wish for You this New Years, and Everyday Thereafter

MoreBy:  Lisa Hayes

The vast majority of people say they no longer set New Year’s Resolutions.  Why?  Because they know they will fail.  Personal history proves that resolutions are a losing proposition.  New Year’s resolutions have become so out of fashion, there’s actually a negative stigma attached to saying you’ve made them.   And yet, even though most people say they aren’t doing it, gym membership sales skyrocket in January and studies prove that more people try to quit smoking in January than any other month of the year.  Dating websites are busier in January and February than any other months of the year.

Bottom line is, even though most people won’t admit it, they will have something they want to change about themselves in the new year.  Chances are you’re one of those most people.  Who can blame you?  Everywhere you turn someone is telling you something is wrong with the world you live in and more specifically wrong with you.   But guess what – that is total crap.

You are absolutely perfect just the way you are


your life is precious right this very moment.

Resolutions don’t work because they are based on the innately flawed premise that you need to be different.  It’s usually about giving something up, when chances are what you really need is more.   The biggest epidemic we have as a society is chronically underfed and uninspired souls.

Listen to the whisper of your soul.  It’s probably begging for more.

The one and ONLY question you should be asking yourself this New Years is this:

What do you want more of???


Do you want a healthier body?

How can you be giving yourself more  incredible and life sustaining food?

How can you be giving yourself  more reasons to dance and move?


Want more love in your life?

How can you be allowing yourself to be more open to receiving?

How can you be more fully appreciating the love you already have?

How can you be allowing more fun and friendship?


Want more money?

How can you be giving yourself more inspiration?

How can you be giving MORE joy to others.

Do you want more time?

Do you want more freedom?

Do you want more fun?

Do you want more adventure?

Do you want more peace?

What do you really want more of???


The only thing that could possibly be wrong with you is you might not realize how precious you are right now.

The only goal worth having for the New Year is to be more of who you were born to be.


You are more than enough.

Give yourself more of whatever your heart desires.

Be curious.

Be greedy.

Be insatiable.

Be relentless in the pursuit of more, in 2014, and every day thereafter.


Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. She is also co-founder of Good Vibe Coach Academy, specializing in LOA Coach Training. To get Lisa's FREE Audio, "How to Talk to a Man" click here. You may also purchase her book - Score Your Soulmate.

1 Comment

  1. Love this Lisa. The only way to get more amazing stuff is to focus on amazing stuff. This comes from exact,t what you said focusing on what feels good and going for mor of it.

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