Blog
Four Things You Can Do This Weekend for an Even Better Relationship
When it comes right down to it, little things usually make a big impact too, maybe an even bigger impact if they are done consistently.
read moreStop Waiting
Food is not a problem, but it’s not a drug. Men are not the enemy, but they are not the answer. Addictions destroy, but drugs and alcohol have no innate power. Time is a reality, but not in the way you might think. Where there is a villain there is a victim and if you don’t want to be a victim you have to stop making other people responsible or wrong. At the end of the day, the only thing you can’t walk away from is yourself. Judgement day is everyday. You can’t create enough distraction or noise to avoid feeling your feelings forever....
read moreThe Biggest Mistake You Will Ever Make
The biggest mistake you can ever make is ignoring your heart when it’s screaming at you. Period. That kind of knowing is absolute.
read moreThe Bad Times – The Myth of Perfection and The Truth of Authenticity
The Myths of Marriage are dangerous. I think too many people get divorced because they believe these myths are true and when they aren’t, they think someone else will be the answer so they change the person they are with instead of changing the myth they are believing.
read moreThe Insanity of Falling in Love vs. The Truth of Unconditional Love
At the end of the day, the greatest gift you can give someone, anyone is to see them, really truly see who they are, and love them without reservation anyway. That requires a strong commitment to being responsible for meeting your own needs, but the payoff is worth it because what you get in return is more of everything that person has to give.
read moreCoaching Case Studies – Are You Living With a Stranger?
If you want to bring new life into an old relationship try seeing your beloved as a stranger. Really try to see them through the eyes of source. Find a way to walk the balance between the unknown and intimacy.
read moreThe “Hard Work” Myth
A relationship on the brink will require much, much more energy than the daily maintenance required to keep it healthy in the first place.
read moreHow to be a Hero While Sitting at Home
So be afraid, be very afraid if that’s what you’re feeling. If you let fear be a free standing emotion without giving it the legs of anger, hate, and revenge. The fear won’t last long without the fuel. Insulate yourself with love.
read moreThe Enlightened Woman’s Guide to Having it All
I stop having everything or even anything worth getting up for when I start thinking what I’ve got isn’t enough. I can choose to love what I have or not. But when I do love it, that is all there is. That is everything.
read more