A Blessing for You

theomzone • October 8, 2017

May you love yourself the way you want to be loved.

You don't need another diet. You don't need to be thinner. Those ten or twenty pounds are not standing between you and your best version of yourself. You need to stop comparing yourself to others to find your value.

You will never be younger and more beautiful than you are today. Life is pumping through your veins. Don't waste it. Nothing needs to change about your body for you to love her now. Self-love is the subversive act that will set you free.

You don't need another guru, teacher, program, or fix. You are whole and blessed because you are here and were born worthy. No one knows what's best for you better than you do.

You are worthy of your own devotion. You can't thrive unless you make yourself the object of your own attention. Self-love is the subversive act that will set you free.

You already make enough, do enough, and are enough to be content. You don't need more of anything to be who you were meant to be. Wealth is nothing more than absolutely loving what you already have, and you have more than enough. You are more than enough.

You don't need another resolution or goal to own your greatness. Self-love is the subversive act that will set you free.

Peace is not the absence of chaos, struggling, or conflict. Peace is the acceptance of all things, especially the chaos, the struggle, and the conflict. Acceptance is everything.

Accepting yourself is a radical act of defiance. Accepting your life with all of the beauty and rough edges is the path to enlightenment. Self-love is the subversive act that will set you free .

You have already grown. Life has had it's way with you. You are already profoundly changed by everything you've experienced.

You cannot take back what's been taken from you. Mourning the losses only has meaning when you also celebrate the expansion and growth. Growth is hard a lot of the time, but it's always beautiful in its own right.

You can expand into the spaces the pain or struggle has created in your soul. That is the only evolution there is to do. Own yourself. Claim sovereignty over your thoughts. Step into the light and out of the shadow and become the person the last twelve months have made you, without apology.

You were born great. You will die in greatness. You are pure love and potential in between. All you have to do now is love what is and love yourself. Self-love is the subversive act that will set you free.

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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan.

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