Coaching that Doesn't Flinch

April 17, 2025

You are not stuck

If you're still looking for coaching that makes you feel comfortable, I am probably not the coach for you.

This is not the place for soft landings and endless processing.

This is the place for exorcising the performance -

for burning down the blueprint,

for finally telling the truth:

You're not confused.

You're exhausted from pretending.


You're not stuck.

You're just too full of shit that doesn't belong to you.


You've read the books.

You've done the shadow work.

You've lit the candles.

You've whispered affirmations into a void that never gave anything back.

So here you are,

still craving something real,

something feral,

something that doesn't require you to explain your trauma in a calm tone to be believed.


I don't coach the polished version of you.

I don't coach your "highest self."

I coach the one beneath the rubble -

the one who knows how to set a boundary without asking for permission,

the one who is not interested in being healed into a more marketable version of herself.


You don't need another fucking template.

You don't need another set of pre-boxed processes. 

You need a threshold.

You need holy interruption.

You need someone who won't flinch when your truth finally starts to scream.


This is not about becoming whole so you can be more productive.

This is about refusing to disappear.

If your healing doesn't make you more dangerous,

you're doing it wrong.

And if you're ready to stop managing your pain

and start reclaiming your power,

I'm here.


This is not a program.

It's a portal.

This is the work.

I will walk with you through the fire—

but only if you're ready to stop pretending the smoke isn't real.


This is 1:1 coaching for women who are done performing and ready to reclaim the whole truth of who they are.

This is sacred, tailored, no-fluff work.

Sessions are flexible, deeply personal, and rooted in liberation—not perfection.

Price begins at $650 per month - custom pricing available.





I want to chat about the things you obsess over when you lie awake at night. I want to unpack your dreams and your nightmares. I want to talk about who you were before all that shit dimmed your shine and how to get her back. 


I’m not here to fix you because I don't think you're broken—I’m here to help you fall in love with yourself and your life again. No mood shaming, no gaslighting, just real, transformative coaching from someone with three decades of experience. Ready to reclaim your fire? Let’s set some sparks flying. DM me or check me out online at https://www.lisamhayes.com .


You can also find me at https://www.thecoachingguild.com/ if you’re interested in coach training.


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