Deconstruct Yourself
Deconstruct yourself.
Take yourself apart piece by piece.
Examine every severed bit. Look at yourself closely in all of your fractured parts, each precious but some outdated or obsolete.
Be willing to burn the pieces you do not need so you can warm yourself by the fire of your absolute presence.
Deconstruct your identities.
Take your identities apart role by role.
Examine every severed part of your identity and ask yourself the hard questions about who you want to be vs. who you think you are. Lay down your titles and all your names. Be willing to see yourself naked. Find ways to love who you are without all of your identities, raw, exposed, and real.
Deconstruct the systems of oppression that live through you.
Pick apart every severed pieces of your socialization, your politicization, and your economic stratification.
Examine all the ways you revel in your separateness through baneful individualism, judgment, or labeling. Be brave because this road can be dark.
Stop paying for status. Stop hiding behind groups of like-minded people to shield yourself from your humanness and the messiness of other humans.
Deconstruct your smallness.
Deconstruct your grandiosity.
Deconstruct your attraction to status.
Deconstruct your addiction to fear.
Deconstruct your pain.
Tear yourself apart and quilt yourself back together as art.
And then stand in the primordial goo of your glorious understanding of your nothingness and the totality of your everything-ness and experience yourself as more potent, more powerful, and more you than you ever have before.
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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the hit books, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. Lisa also trains the worlds best coaches at www.thecoachingguild.com.
