You Were Summoned Out of the Earth Like a Sacred Magic Ritual

October 23, 2024

You were Never meant to be small

You were never meant to be small, quiet, or contained. You were summoned—called forth from the earth like a magic spell, your bones formed from stardust and soil, your breath intertwined with ancient winds. Your birth was not just an entry; it was a ritual, a sacred event where the universe conspired to bring your specific energy, your unique essence, into existence.


From the moment you emerged, wild and wailing, you’ve carried a force within you so potent that it defies the limits of this world. And the wilder you become, the more untamed, the more feral, the stronger that power grows. Your work, the real task of your life, isn’t to fit yourself into the mold that society has prepared for you. It’s to break free, to remember the untamed force of nature that you truly are.


You Were Never Meant to Be Tamed

The world will try to tell you to quiet down, to soften your edges, to make yourself palatable. It will try to convince you that your power lies in being controlled, in being appropriate, in following the rules. But that’s a lie—a lie designed to keep you small, to keep you disconnected from the primal energy that pulses through your blood.


Your power isn’t found in conformity. It doesn’t thrive in a domesticated life. It grows wild, like vines through a forgotten forest, like storms on the horizon. The more you strip away the layers of conditioning, the layers of “should” and “must,” the closer you come to your true self. Rewilding yourself—returning to your most natural, instinctive state—is the key. It’s not about finding something new; it’s about remembering what’s always been there.


Your Purpose Is to Heal—But You Are the Source

As a woman, your purpose is deeply intertwined with healing, but not in the way you might think. You weren’t placed on this earth to be the healer for everyone else, exhausting yourself in the service of others. Your true work is to become the source of healing, to understand that you are the key. A master knows this. A master understands that they themselves are the medicine. Not through some external act of saving others, but by standing fully in their own power, in their own untamed brilliance.


When you allow yourself to be fully you—to stop fighting the currents of your soul and surrender to the wildness within—you become the source of your own healing, and others are drawn to you. Not because you are here to fix them, but because your energy reminds them of their own untapped power. The more you become yourself, the more you heal—not just yourself, but those who find themselves in your orbit.


Your Work Is to Re-wild

This is your work: to become more yourself, more untamed, more feral. To strip away the chains of appropriateness, to break free from the cages that have been built around you, and to rewild yourself in the deepest sense of the word. This isn’t about abandoning civilization, but about remembering that your truest power doesn’t lie in following the rules—it lies in your raw, unfiltered energy.


The more you allow yourself to be wild, to be untamed, the more you tap into the source of healing that flows through you. It’s in the fierceness of your truth, the wildness of your heart, and the fire in your soul that your true power lies. And when you stand in that power, when you fully embrace the wild force of who you are, you offer the world something it cannot ignore.


You weren’t called into this world to be small. You were called to be wild, to be free, to be a force of nature that cannot be contained. And your healing power, your presence, is more potent than you know. It’s time to remember who you are. It’s time to rewild yourself, to stand in your brilliance, and to understand that the greatest source of healing is within you.



P.S.

If you are looking for a coach to walk right beside you on the journey to this kind of freedom, shoot me a message.

I want to chat about the things you obsess over when you lie awake at night. I want to unpack your dreams and your nightmares. I want to talk about who you were before all that shit dimmed your shine and how to get her back.


I’m not here to fix you because I don't think you're broken—I’m here to help you fall in love with yourself and your life again. No mood shaming, no gaslighting, just real, transformative coaching from someone with three decades of experience. Ready to reclaim your fire? Let’s set some sparks flying. DM me.


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