3 Easy Ways to Hack Your Deliberate Creation Practice

Lisa M. Hayes • February 14, 2020

Sometimes YOu gotta shake things up

1.  Seriously, do something.

I know what you're going to say. "Inspired action is everything." So, if you're not inspired you should remain prone on the sofa until inspiration shows up.  

The question is: Is that working for you? 

Sometimes the do nothing drill is a trap. Additionally, often people lie to themselves about how good it feels to sit around and wait for inspiration. 
 
Unless you're tired, remaining prone on the sofa for too long is the death of inspiration. The Universe loves momentum. So, doing something, ANYTHING really is probably better than stewing in the doldrums for too long.  

Doing something doesn't have to mean doing something you don't want to do.
It doesn't mean doing something that has to be a success.
It doesn't mean by doing it you're necessarily committed to seeing it through.  
Doing something doesn't have to mean doing something related to your project or problem.  

All it means is that you're willing to get up and out into the world to dance in the magic of life. You're going to get out of your head. You're going to drop into your body and get your hands dirty for the fun of it.  

I could give you a dozen very scientific reasons why doing something moves the meter in the multiverse and creates results.  However, the bottomline is momentum usually produces inspiration. 


2. Resting focus rules the day.

The Multiverse, the field of infinite potential, is a focus driven machine.
And we know this. So, we engage in all kinds of processes and practices to ramp up the feel good and dial in the focus for a few minutes at a time. 

You know, the vision board, the meditation, the visualization - all those things are fabulous and maybe even important. However, once you pop out of the creating your reality bubble, if your resting awareness the other twenty-three and a half hours of the day drifts back to noticing life as it is instead of life as you want it to be, you're going to stay stuck. 

People say thoughts are things and that is real truth. 
However, I would also add, what you are looking at will become your reality. 

Create environments that look like where you're going.
Take yourself places that feel like what you'd like to be experiencing. 
Spend less time on social media being a virtual voyeur in other people's lives and more times looking at images and websites that remind you of where you're headed. 

Managing your resting focus or organic attention is critical to get you where you want to be. There is a lot of evidence that suggests the language of the multiverse is visual. So, the bottom line is pay attention to what you're looking at. 

3.  It's not what they do. It's what they think.

Learn from people who are where you want to go, or at least in the territory of where you want to be. While that might seem obvious, there's more to it than meets the eye. 

You don't need to know what they did to get there. Reverse engineering someone else's processes probably won't work for you as reliably as they did for them.

What you really want to learn is what they think.
How does a person who's grooving in your dreamland THINK on the daily?  

I don't want to know the one magical thought that looked like the keys to the kingdom. I want to know how that person thinks in general. That's where the juice is.

Thoughts curate both behavior and focus. Behavior produces immediate results and focus leverages the magic of the Universe.   The good news is you CAN choose and practice any kind of thoughts you want.  Despite how it might seem, you're thinking isn't happening to you.  

The other good news is you don't have to practice a way of thinking for very long before that new way of thinking becomes organic for you.  Neuroplasticity basically means the brain is always changing.  So, get yourself a roadmap from someone who's already gone there and get in the driver's seat by re-creating your patterns of thinking. 






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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. 



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