The Divine Goddess Will Wreck Your Life—Don’t Call Her Unless You’re Ready

There's a lot of talk these days about women invoking the energies of powerful goddesses of the death and rebirth cycle like Kali, Hecate, and Pele. It's become fashionable, even trendy, to claim connection to these primal forces of destruction and rebirth. But let me tell you something: if you're still settling for mediocrity in your life, you're not actually working with those energies. Your spiritual practice is more talk than walk. Divine goddesses of destruction leave evidence of their presence in their wake.

These goddesses don't show up to play nice. They don't show up to give you a pep talk and let you keep living in a way that drains your soul. They show up to destroy the parts of your life that are holding you back. They don't have a lot of patients.

These Energies Don't Allow Bullshit

Hecate doesn't come to whisper sweet nothings into your ear while you tolerate a dead-end job, a toxic relationship, or the slow erosion of your boundaries. She'll drag you by your hair away from anything or anyone stealing your energy, and then she'll light the rubble on fire so you can't go back.

The same goes for Kali, Pele, and the other forces of divine destruction. They're not interested in maintaining the status quo. They won't prioritize your comfort over your growth. They're here to tear it down so you can rise.

I once had a friend who invoked Kali Ma to "handle" her soon-to-be ex-husband. She wanted to know if he was cheating, and she wanted him out of her life if he was. Kali did handle him—but not in the way she expected. Three weeks after turning to Kali, the man had a car accident that left him partially disabled. He had a mental breakdown during rehab, and never worked another day in his life. He was never able to pay single dime of child support for their two kids.

Kali doesn't do half-measures. If you ask her to intervene, she will. But you don't get to control how the destruction unfolds. We never get to control how destruction unfolds. He have to be at peace with losing everything all the time and almost no one is.

The Trend Is Bluster

As we move into a political climate that actively jeopardizes the safety and autonomy of women, more and more women are claiming relationships with these energies. It's understandable—there's power in invoking archetypes like Hecate or Kali. But let's be real: a lot of that talk is just bluster.

These energies are not for the faint of heart. They're not for women who want to keep one foot in their comfort zone while dipping a toe into transformation. They're for women ready to lose everything to gain themselves. They are for women prepared to let the fire consume whatever no longer serves them, no matter how much they've clung to it in the past.

These goddesses are primal forces of nature. They do not ask your permission, and they do not give you the option of halfway transformation. When they move into your life, they take over. They see what you can't or won't. They rip the blindfold off and make you face the truth you've been avoiding. And the truth is this: if you're working with these energies, you will lose what's not aligned with your highest self—whether you want to or not

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Embrace Destruction

If we're going to not just survive but thrive in the coming years, we need to stop playing nice. We need to embrace destruction with the same excitement we tend to bring to creation. This is a time to enter our divine villain era—to stop apologizing for wanting more and start making room for it by burning down what's in the way.

But hear this: if you invoke these energies—if you call on Kali, Hecate, or Pele—you must be ready for the consequences. Your life will not stay the same. They don't do superficial change. They rip things out by the root. They burn it all down. And they do it for you—but only if you're ready.

The destruction these goddesses bring isn't cruel—it's clarity.

It's liberation. But it's also brutal. You'll lose relationships that drain you, jobs that don't honor you, and comforts that keep you small. You'll lose the excuses you've relied on to stay stuck. And when they're done, there will be no going back.

It's okay if you're not ready. It's okay to sit with the idea of transformation and take your time. But don't call on these energies unless you're willing to face the fire. Don't venerate them casually or as a trend. Don't ask them for change and then resist the very change they bring.

These goddesses don't care about your comfort. They care about your growth. They care about your power. They care about you stepping into the version of yourself that no longer tolerates mediocrity or bullshit.

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