You Are More Terrifying Than You Know

theomzone • May 27, 2025

(And That's Exactly Why They Taught You to Be Afraid of Yourself)

There is a version of you
buried beneath the performance,
beneath the gratitude you’ve weaponized against your own rage,
beneath the careful tone, the spiritual bypass, and the never-ending to-do list.
She is untamed,
uncompromising,
and electric with power.


You don’t fully know her yet, but you’ve felt her.

She lives in the moments you almost said what you meant.
She waits in the stillness right before you chose peace over truth.
She holds her breath in the split second when your body said no
and your mouth still smiled.


She is there.
She is waiting.
Not for another affirmation.
Not for a full moon ritual.
Not for the right coach or the right moment or for the stars to align.

She is waiting for you to stop pretending you are not dangerous.


You are more terrifying than you think.
Not because you are harmful.
But because you are honest.
Because you are whole.
Because you are holy in a way that will never kneel to the machine.


This world is afraid of a woman who does not apologize for what she knows.
A woman who remembers her body as altar,
her grief as spell,
her rage as compass,
her intuition as weapon—one the patriarchy cannot decode.


You were not built for contentment.
You were built for resistance.


But here’s the paradox.
Before you can lead a revolution,
you must lead yourself back to the part of you that never consented to the cage.


That’s the work.

My coaching is not a performance.
It is not personal development as usual.
It is not cheerleading from the sidelines of your collapse.

It is rewilding.
It is ritual.
It is reclamation.

It is the space where you stop fixing yourself
and start unleashing yourself.


The world you’re living in is a red-hot mess.
The violence is loud.
The grief is thick.
The silence is deadly.

The most dangerous thing you can do right now is stay small.

 🖤 1:1 coaching begins at $650/month
🖤 Flexible pricing available
🖤 This is deep, bespoke, soul-fanged work
🖤 No scripts. No bypass. No pretending.


You are more terrifying than you know.
That isn’t the problem.
That is the beginning.


This is the work.





I want to chat about the things you obsess over when you lie awake at night. I want to unpack your dreams and your nightmares. I want to talk about who you were before all that shit dimmed your shine and how to get her back. 


I’m not here to fix you because I don't think you're broken—I’m here to help you fall in love with yourself and your life again. No mood shaming, no gaslighting, just real, transformative coaching from someone with three decades of experience. Ready to reclaim your fire? Let’s set some sparks flying. DM me or check me out online at https://www.lisamhayes.com .


You can also find me at https://www.thecoachingguild.com/ if you’re interested in coach training.


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