𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑾𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 π‘Ύπ’Šπ’π’ 𝑡𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝑩𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒇𝒆—𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒀𝒐𝒖 π‘ͺ𝒂𝒏 𝑩𝒆 𝑭𝒓𝒆𝒆

March 4, 2025

If you keep waiting, you will wait forever.


Maybe you’ve been waiting.

Waiting for the world to calm down.

Waiting for things to feel solid again.

Waiting for the moment when you finally feel safe enough to move, to change, to step fully into the life that’s been whispering your name.

But the truth?


That moment isn’t coming.

Because the world is never going to hand you peace.

It will never pause long enough for you to catch your breath.

It will never give you the perfect set of circumstances to finally step into the life you were meant for.

If you keep waiting, you will wait forever.

And maybe, deep down, you already know that.


Maybe you’ve already felt the pull—the part of you that is tired of circling the same patterns, tired of waiting, tired of carrying the weight of a past that has already happened.

Because the past is over, but your body doesn’t know that yet.


That’s why you still flinch when nothing is coming.

That’s why you still brace when there’s nothing to fear.

That’s why you still replay the same stories, still react from old wounds, still feel trapped in a life you know is too small for you.


Your nervous system doesn’t understand time.

It doesn’t care that you’ve outgrown the pain.

It doesn’t care that you’ve “done the work.”

It only knows patterns. It only knows what it’s been trained to expect.

Which means every day, whether you realize it or not, you are living in a spell you didn’t even cast.

✨ The spell of waiting.

✨ The spell of fear.

✨ The spell of believing the past still owns you.


But here’s the truth that changes everything:

✨ Your wounds are not chains. They are just echoes.

✨ Your patterns are not prisons. They are just grooves in the mind.

✨ And the moment you decide to step out of them, they lose their power.


But decision alone isn’t enough.

If decision was enough, you would have done it by now.

You need something that tells your body, your mind, your soul:

The past is done. We are moving forward now.


That something is ritual.

Because ritual is how you rewrite reality.

It is how you speak to the deeper parts of yourself that words alone can’t reach.

It is how you tell your body, we are safe now.

We are not just surviving anymore. We are creating something new.

Ritual is how you shift the energy inside you.


It is how you stop waiting for the world to change and start claiming the life you actually want to be living.

It is how you unhook from what was and anchor into what is becoming.

And that is what The Unveiling is.

✨ A rite of passage into something new.

✨ A severing of old patterns and a claiming of new power.

✨ A miracle, disguised as a choice.

Because the world will never be safe.

But you?

You can be free.

And if you’re ready for that?


The threshold is open. Step through.

✨ Email me if you feel the call.


Check it out The Unveiling Here.




I want to chat about the things you obsess over when you lie awake at night. I want to unpack your dreams and your nightmares. I want to talk about who you were before all that shit dimmed your shine and how to get her back. 


I’m not here to fix you because I don't think you're broken—I’m here to help you fall in love with yourself and your life again. No mood shaming, no gaslighting, just real, transformative coaching from someone with three decades of experience. Ready to reclaim your fire? Let’s set some sparks flying. DM me or check me out online at https://www.lisamhayes.com .


You can also find me at https://www.thecoachingguild.com/ if you’re interested in coach training.


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