You're Not Lazy

September 6, 2024

Take Care of yourself

You're not lazy. You're probably thirsty. 

Drink some water 

Make some tea.

Take care of yourself. 


You're not lazy. You're probably overwhelmed.

Take a fucking break.

Put the phone down - the email can wait.

Take care of yourself.


You're not lazy. You're probably just tired.

Take a nap.

Drink the chamomile tea and go to bed at a reasonable hour. 

Take care of yourself.


You're not lazy. You're probably sun-deprived. 

Go outside.

Touch grass - do it every day. 

Take care of yourself. 


You're not lazy. You're probably hungry. 

Have a snack-maybe more than one. 

Eat when your body asks for food.

Take care of yourself. 


You're not lazy. You're probably fed-up.

Set some strong boundaries. 

Stop giving so many fucks about too many things.

Take care of yourself. 


You're not lazy. You're probably overcommitted.

Not everything is worth doing.

Just say no. 

Take care of yourself. 


You're not lazy. You're probably bored.

Find something that sparks your curiosity. 

Feed your mind with something new. 

Take care of yourself.


You're not lazy. You're probably disconnected.

Call a friend. 

Talk to someone who lifts your spirits. 

Take care of yourself.


You're not lazy. You're probably uninspired.

Do something creative just for fun.

Get messy with it—paint, write, dance. 

Take care of yourself.


You're not lazy. 





P.S.

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