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“Lisa was the only person in my life who told me the truth about what was happening in my marriage.  While other people were either lying to me or trying to ‘protect’ me, Lisa was able to see through it all and prepare me for changes.   If I hadn’t had someone in my corner I don’t know how I would have been able to get through the end of my marriage.  Now, just a few months later, I can look back on the unthinkable and see how it was one of the best things in my life.”

Sarah

“I’d been in a funk for months.  My engagement ended just two weeks before our wedding date and I honestly didn’t have any plans for my life that didn’t involve being married.  Working with Lisa Hayes I learned to absolutely love being single.  Someday I know I will be in a serious relationship again, but for right now, I’m single and enjoying every moment of it.  Lisa always says, ‘the best revenge is moving on’, and you know what?  It’s true!However, I’ve learned that moving on doesn’t have to mean moving on to another man.”
Alona

“Who ever thought I would be single at 50?  Who ever thought I could be single at 50 and loving every moment of it???  After a twenty-six year marriage and a typical bitter divorce, I found myself with an empty nest and empty bed.  When I first started working with Lisa all I wanted to do was date.  However, I didn’t date for almost eighteen months after I started my coaching with Lisa and I am really glad I waited.  Lisa helped me get to a place where I was honestly ready to date, not just trying to fill up my loneliness.  She helped me get closure on my divorce.  She also helped me sharpen up on my dating skills.  Now I’m out there.  I’m dating!  I am having the time of my life and really believe I owe it all to Lisa!”
Pat

“Single in Seattle was the theme of my life, except I wasn’t getting a happy ending.  I was in my late thirties and had a string of relationships with men who were seriously unavailable to commit.  After a two year affair with a married man ended, my sister paid for my coaching with Lisa Hayes.  I have to be honest, I didn’t want to do it.  However, I was ashamed of my behavior, so I conceded.   It was the best thing I ever did.  Lisa helped me get out of my victim role and learn that I could break the pattern. Lisa taught me that life just wasn’t happening to me and I really could steer my own ship.  That was three years ago.  I got married to my soul-mate six months ago.  I owe that to my sister who drug me kicking and screaming to Lisa, who was the only one believed I could get that story book ending.  As usual, she was right.”
Sara Anna

Relationship coaching was the best investment I ever made.  I grew up in a pretty dysfunctional home. I honestly didn’t have any good role models when it came to how to be successful in a relationship.  I know that working with Lisa saved my marriage.  She helped me learn to be responsible for how I was treated and how I treated others.  She never judged me, but she certainly didn’t put up with my excuses either.   I know we were headed for divorce and I know I was largely responsible for that.  Lisa was the only one who thought our marriage could be saved, and she was right.  Thank you, Lisa, from the bottom of my heart.”
Jane

“I had been working with Lisa for five weeks when she finally asked the question that changed everything.  ‘When are we going to talk about the fact that your husband is beating you, Laurie?’   I had been hiding that from everyone in my life for more then a decade.  Somehow in a month Lisa saw through my lies and by her saying it out loud, I had to face it, finally.  A decade of silent suffering ended in just a few weeks.  I never would have thought I could live without the man who was abusing me.  Now looking back I can’t remember being the woman who could stay.  There were times when Lisa was the only one who believed I had the strength and courage to get myself and my kids out of that.  Now when I look at my two, happy, healthy, safe children, I know I have Lisa to thank for probably saving our lives.”
Laurie

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