This isn’t about judgement. It’s not about right or wrong. It’s not even about consequences. It’s about how you’re going to feel about yourself the morning after knowing he might not call again. It’s about whether you feel like you sacrificed or not.
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This year let’s opt out of wanting our bodies to be different in favor of loving the bodies we have now more than ever before. This year let’s remember love is a verb. It’s about treating our bodies like bodies we love.
You can’t expect someone to love all of you when you’re only willing to show the bright and shiny parts. All of us have some icky scary stuff we’d like to hide, but if you want intimacy you can’t. Vulnerability is required if we want to be loved deeper than the surface, and everyone wants to be loved deeply.
The quality of your life will be determined by the quality of the moments in it. Little things add up and more importantly those little things determine your dominant vibration, which determines everything you experience.
No woman, or man for that matter, can hate themselves enough to become something beautiful. Self loathing or even self doubt just isn’t sexy.
We can rewrite our story – past, present and future – at any time. I believe, like Albert Einstein, that time is an illusion.
Energy in motion will stay in motion, heading the same direction, until acted upon by another force.
If you’re alive, you’re changing, either for the better or for the worse, and the relationships you choose have a massive impact on that growth curve which is always either going up or down.
I tend to believe a marriage isn’t one entity. It’s three. There are two people, and one marriage. All three of those things need to be healthy. That means both partners need to stay emotionally and physically healthy.
Doing something like that 100 times a day is tedious. It’s obnoxious at first. It can feel like a lie. But it doesn’t matter. Someone out there is telling you about 1000 times a day you aren’t good enough, and that’s a lie too, so you get to pick your messages.