Attracting the love you want and designing a life you love.

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Look, I’ve been there. Maybe not exactly where you are, but probably someplace that feels pretty similar.

I know it’s hard to believe you can have the life and love of your dreams when you can’t remember what those dreams even were. However, you can. You don’t have to know how. You don’t even have to really believe it’s possible, because I believe in you enough for both of us.

 

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6 Red Flag Signs Someone Might Be An Undateable

By: Lisa Hayes

I know a lot of people who are single and looking who think the goal is to find a relationship. That is not an impressive goal. Finding someone to date is one thing. Finding some to marry is another. Finding someone you still want to be married to two or three decades later, is a worthy goal.

However, when you're single, it can seem so challenging to even make it to the third date that it's easy to lose sight of what happily-ever-after might look like. I know this because I've been right there. That said, if you're ever going to make it happily-ever-after, you have to know what that looks like for you and focus on it relentlessly.

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3 Ways To Focus More On What You Want Before You Have It

By: Lisa Hayes

There is really only one way to leverage your power as a deliberate creator. You have to be focusing on what you want more than what you don't want. The tipping point everyone talks about is that point where the thing you want has your dominant attention.

You can't game the field of potential on this one. You can meditate your head off on what you're trying to attract an hour a day, and if you spend the other twenty-three hours noticing that it's not there, it's not coming.

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Telltale Signs Your Self-Worth Isn't As High As It Should Be

By: Lisa Hayes

One of the first questions I ask most new clients is this: On a scale of one to ten, ten being the highest, what would you rate your self-worth?

Inevitably, they will answer with a six or a seven. On a scale that runs to ten, seven is pretty high. Most of the time when I hear this reply I can take a pretty quick inventory and know it's not true. Nothing has more impact on the results we're getting in our lives than our own sense of worthiness. When something is coming up short, lack of worthiness is an easy and usually accurate reason why.

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  • “Lisa was the only person in my life who told me the truth about what was happening in my marriage. While other people were either lying to me or trying to ‘protect’ me, Lisa was able to see through it all and prepare me for changes. If I hadn’t had someone in my corner I don’t know how I would have been able to get through the end of my marriage. Now, just a few months later, I can look back on the unthinkable and see how it was one of the best things in my life.”

    “Lisa was the only person in my life who told me the truth about what was happening in my marriage. While other people were either lying to me or trying to ‘protect’ me, Lisa was able to see through it all and prepare me for changes. If I hadn’t had someone in my corner I don’t know how I would have been able to get through the end of my marriage. Now, just a few months later, I can look back on the unthinkable and see how it was one of the best things in my life.”

    Sarah

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