I like you a lot. You’re pretty great. You’re good enough. In fact, I love you a little. So, I’m going to open my heart wide and give you everything. I’m going pretend this is it.
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The bottom line is, if you want more awesome stuff, you’ve got to think more awesome thoughts, and it doesn’t really matter what you think those thoughts about.
A woman who is adored has enough energy and love to go around and the man who adores her will reap the benefits and those benefits are way bigger than what he actually invests in her.
The Six Rules of Conflict Kung Fu + The Story of How I Got Married in a Funeral Chapel on Friday the 13th
Conflict Kung Fu is a system of communicating that is without force. You don’t put the other person in a position to have to defend anything. There is no conflict because no one has to be wrong.
When you make someone else an excuse for not being your best self, your relationship with that person is at great risk.
I’m in charge of this moment. That is all. This moment is all there ever is anyway. Alignment happens moment by moment.
This year on Valentine’s Day you might both have a better time if your focus was less on “romance” which is kind of intangible, and instead focused more on dedicating the day to making your man feel loved, which is very tangible.
People always ask me how do you start loving yourself, when you just don’t know how. The answer is simple. Treat yourself like someone you love and the feelings will follow. Feelings always follow behavior.
If you want to be valuable, treat yourself like something you value. It’s that’s simple.
Circumstances and schedules aren’t an excuse. Not taking care of myself is lazy and selfish. The people around me deserve better than me showing up like a broken down bag lady.