The Matriarchy is Dawning

The patriarchy is so malignant at this point that if we leave it alone, it will die all on its own.

We do not need to fight the patriarchy anymore.

Women simply need to stop participating.

Our attention is the only thing that stands between oppression and the death of the patriarchy -

disinvest from that system now.

We are entering a new reality.

The Matriarchy is dawning, and she is calling us to step into that dawn.

Stop fucking around with mediocre men.

Stop wasting your time with unhealed, frankly uninteresting men who do not have the capacity or desire to bring A LOT to the table beyond the early days of getting into your bed.

Do not even interact with men who can't pay the price of admission for protecting your fucking peace.

You are no longer a rehab center for fucked up men.

We have the power to rid the planet of them for the rest of history.

We can end them.

We can stop birthing the children of men who are not exceptional in every single way.

Pregnancy and childbirth are life-threatening.

Being a baby machine is dangerous.

We can and should stop bearing the children of ordinary men.

We have the power to cull the herd.

Don't pay their bills. Don't pay their way.

Do not give away your labor, emotionally, mentally, or physically, to a man who won't rise to make your life substantively more beautiful.

Stop providing social cover and credibility for a mediocre man just for the sake of having a partner. 

A mediocre man will drain your energy, ruin your credit score, and take the best years of your life.

A bad boy is an addiction.

The knight in shining armor is a fantasy.

Men we think we need are poison.

Avoid the unhealed man, as if your life depends on it because it might.

Stop treating men like a necessity or a luxury when men are the leading cause of death for women.

Stop inviting predators into your bed and body.

They ruled with an iron fist from inside a boys club - but women are rising.

The Matriarchy is calling.

She is calling women to trust and hold other women.

She is asking us to invest in one another.

She wants us to remember the safety and sanctuary of sisterhood.

Stop giving your money to men because money is power.

Invest your money with and spend money on women.

Give money to women.

Hire Women.

Make exceptions for women.

Spread your wealth among your sisters because women are an investment in the future. 

Surround yourself with women.

Dance with women.

Make future plans with women.

Treat the women in your life like your life partners and with the tenderness you would treat your lovers.

Give them grace and give them your attention.

Reject the authority of men. 

Vote for women.

Vote for women.

Vote for women.

Vote for a future that puts women in power.

Be willing to go off script, off the beaten path, out of your way daily to put women in power and keep them there. 

The Matriarchy is the only hope our planet and humanity really have.

Protect and listen to the wisdom of black and brown women.

Protect and listen to the wisdom of old women.

Protect and listen to the wisdom of girls.

Drop the patriarchal nonsense of the white, old man in the sky and embrace the Goddess in you. 

Own your body. Do not give her away.

Own your sexuality. Love who you love. Fuck who you want.

Own your heart. Love yourself harder than you'd even consider loving anyone else.

Brake the habit of measuring your beauty and your worth by what's valuable in the eyes of the male gaze.

Practice being unattractive to men.

Make being too much be a spiritual practice.

Be a sexual being for your own pleasure and stop buying into the standards of objectification.

Let yourself be re-wilded.

An expectation of civility might be control.

You do not owe anyone predictability.

There is no single reason a man shouldn't be terrified of you.

Arm yourself if you need to.

Let yourself be totally insane as a way of setting and maintaining boundaries if you must.

Understand that the feminine might be soft, but she is not passive.

The Matriarchy will not start a war, but she will finish one.

She will fight for what's hers and defend her own.

She is fighting for the planet now.

She will rise with a fierceness that masculinity cannot understand.

Breathe into the spark in your soul that feels like a stirring, and let it unfurl into a wildfire. 



Welcome to the age of the Matriarchy.

Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the hit books, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. Lisa also trains the worlds best coaches at www.thecoachingguild.com. 

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