The Greatest Social Experiment Of Our Time

theomzone • October 11, 2017

Here’s a fact. There is a multi-billion dollar industry that operates solely on making you believe one thing. That one thing is so pervasive, that although we know it’s a lie, most of us buy into it both literally and figuratively.

That lie is this-

You are so ugly you shouldn’t be seen without a vale.

You are actually in some way, or many ways deformed.

You look old and beyond your prime.

You Are Hideous.

The beauty industry is multifaceted. It is the cosmetics industry, the skincare industry, the hair industry, the health and fitness industry, and the fashion industry. The beauty industry makes billions of dollars annually worldwide. It has the best PR firms, advertising agencies, the media, and the celebrities at its disposal to sell you the lie. You are bombarded daily with hundreds of messages that remind you how hideous you actually are.

The people who peddle this lie have a lot at stake and are good at telling you what to think about yourself, and other women.

There is a big issue in our society today. Women are packaged, they are objectified, and merchandised and marketed as things. Most of us don’t like it but don’t know what to do about it. However, the solution is remarkably simple and it starts with you.


You Decide YOU Are Beautiful.

It’s time we start maybe the greatest social experiment of our time and that experiment is this:

Every single time you look in the mirror, you tell yourself you are beautiful.

Every single time for a full year.

It might not seem true at first, but that’s OK. It’s just unfamiliar.

The more you tell yourself how to see yourself the less you will buy into the billion dollar lie.

The Truth Of Who You Are Is For You And You Alone To Decide.

It’s certain that as you do this, every single time you look in the mirror, after only a few days you will see yourself differently. After a few weeks, you will show up differently in the world. After a year, I’m guessing you won’t recognize the woman you were before.

Start today and watch the miracle unfold for all of us.

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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan.

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