Enough is Enough

theomzone • November 2, 2017

I am not a big fan of the hustle. Hustle for the sake of being in the game or on the move is not my idea of fun. I don’t want to slay every day. I don’t need to be the Lady Boss of everything. I don’t need to storm the world in what feels like a surprise hostile take over. I want a life that’s full of naps and meaning and sometimes what’s meaningful to me might not look like changing the world. It might look like petting my dogs.


We live in a world that’s driven by having, doing, and getting more.

I want my life to be a quiet ode to having enough.

I want to know I have enough always because I do and I don’t want to buy into anyone’s marketing game plan that tells me I need more.

I want to know in my bones I am enough, more than enough, because I am and so are you.


Life is happening now.

What’s happening now is the only thing there is.

Control is an illusion. Despite our best efforts we cannot control everything. We cannot control much. All there is, is the choice about what to do with the moment you’ve been given.

Change is the only constant force we can count on.

I want a life well enough crafted that I can be present to the moment I’m in with all of it’s glorious chaos or stillness.


I’m interested in late night discussions about dreams that are happening.

I’m interested in mornings that are so slow I can see my child growing.

I’m interested in raw, messy imperfection that is profoundly beautiful in it’s amalgamation.

I’m interested in the stories about the scars that make people beautiful.


Time stands still for no one.

I don’t want to conquer the world at the risk of losing time I will never get back.

I want to dance in the world because this dance is a gift.

I’m willing to be led most if not all of the time because life knows it’s way around magic.


There is only one path to beauty and it’s the slow path.

Presence takes time.

Enough is enough and I don’t want to need more.


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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan.




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