Life is a daisy chain of days, and all of them knotted together, are precious.

July 26, 2024

You are not out of chances or out of time.

This one-shot mentality makes for great stories and catchy songs, but life gives you almost unlimited chances to be something more in the next moment than in this moment - life is playful that way. 


As much as the days might seem to bleed one into the next, every day is ripe for something radical. 


Some days will change you just because you lived through them. However, most days, the miracles are a choice. 

Most days, you have to decide to let the mundane be magical and do something with it. 


There is sacred in the dark spaces. 

There are gifts in the shadowy corners we want to avoid. 

There are closed doors and dead ends, but there are also infinite do-overs, beautiful second chances, and blessings in endings. 


Life is generous. 

Life keeps giving. 

Life keeps asking you to play

Life wants you to rise and rise again and remember tomorrow will be another day


Some days want to grab you by the shoulders and shake you.

Some days want to hold you while you rest.

Some days want you to notice the beauty in your life as if each day were art. 

Life is a daisy chain of days, and all of them knotted together, are precious.


You are not out of time or out of chances. 

You are not being left out or left behind.

You are not too old or too much.

You will probably get one shot after another over and over again. Take a breath and wait for the next ride. It will come. 




Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the hit books, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. Lisa also trains the worlds best coaches at www.thecoachingguild.com. 

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