The Kind of Healing No One Really Talks About

December 5, 2025

What Reclamation Actually Looks Like

There is a truth I keep returning to, both in my own body and in the women I sit with.
Healing does not always look serene.


It does not always look peaceful or enlightened or beautifully composed.

More often, real healing looks like a woman remembering the part of herself she was taught to tame.

A re-wilded woman is a healed woman.


Not because she is feral or out of control, but because she is finally done abandoning herself.


She stops forcing herself to be agreeable when her whole body is saying no.
She stops swallowing her anger to protect someone else’s comfort.
She stops pretending she is untouched by life just to appear spiritually put together.
She stops performing the version of herself that was easier for other people to digest.


Re-wilding is not about chaos.
It is about truth.
It is about instinct.
It is about letting the body speak again after years of being told to be quiet.


A re-wilded woman honors the pulse under her skin.
She trusts the tension in her chest when something is off.
She listens to the grief she has been carrying for decades.
She lets desire be a compass, not a liability.
She allows anger to be information, not evidence of failing at emotional maturity.

She doesn’t have to burn her life down to come back to herself.
She just has to stop disappearing inside it.


This is the healing no one prepared us for.
The healing that returns you to the edges of yourself.
The healing that brings your instincts back online.
The healing that feels less like becoming someone new and more like remembering someone ancient inside you.


If this pulls at something real in you, trust that.
It is not a mistake.
It is not a phase.
It is not your “shadow acting out.”
It is the part of you that wants your life to feel like it actually belongs to you again.


If you want to talk about what that kind of reclamation could look like in your actual life, message me.
Just a human conversation about coming home to yourself. No pressure.







I want to chat about the things you obsess over when you lie awake at night. I want to unpack your dreams and your nightmares. I want to talk about who you were before all that shit dimmed your shine and how to get her back. 


I’m not here to fix you because I don't think you're broken—I’m here to help you fall in love with yourself and your life again. No mood shaming, no gaslighting, just real, transformative coaching from someone with three decades of experience. Ready to reclaim your fire? Let’s set some sparks flying. DM me or check me out online at https://www.lisamhayes.com .


You can also find me at https://www.thecoachingguild.com/ if you’re interested in coach training.


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