Unapologetically You: Dismantling the Myths That Bind Us

Wouldn't it be nice if you did your makeup as a form of art and a celebration of your beautiful face instead of trying to make yourself look better, younger, or different in some way to meet traditional "beauty standards"? 

Wouldn't it be nice to move your body because she is the delightful companion you love rather than to try by force to get her to look the way she did when you were nineteen? 

Wouldn't it be nice if you could dress yourself every day as art for joy instead of trying to build a wardrobe focused on pleasing the male gaze, looking like you've got a lot of money, or being invisible so you can hide in the crowd? 

Wouldn't it be nice to eat foods that feel like nurturing and nourishment to both you and your happy body rather than eating to literally take up less space than you do naturally? 

Wouldn't it be nice if you could just speak your truth with confidence and ease, not to fit in and be liked or to be perfect or appropriate? 

Wouldn't it be nice to sleep and rest, not just when you need to but when you want to, without guilt or the need to justify your worth based on doing more and then doing more and then doing even more?

Wouldn't it be nice to celebrate yourself and your successes, big and small, because celebrating makes life more fun, not for external validation, 

And wouldn't it be nice if you could simply exist, loving every inch of your being and every second of the fabulous life you've built without the constant need to change, conform, or apologize for who you are?

Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the hit books, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan. Lisa also trains the world's best coaches at www.thecoachingguild.com.