Stop Waiting


Food is not a problem, but it’s not a drug.
Men are not the enemy, but they are not the answer.
Addictions destroy, but drugs and alcohol have no innate power.
Time is a reality, but not in the way you might think.

Where there is a villain there is a victim and if you don’t want to be a victim you have to stop making other people responsible or wrong.

At the end of the day, the only thing you can’t walk away from is yourself.
Judgement day is every day. You can’t create enough distraction or noise to avoid feeling your feelings forever. Everyone has those quiet moments of truth intended to illuminate the reality of life and you have to answer the only question that matters.
Is this all there is?

The answer is yes. This is everything and you’ve created all of it. How do you like it?
Do you want less of anything? Do you want more of everything?
Do want to be loved? Do you love yourself?
Is life passing you by while you take care of others, check facebook, or worry about tomorrow?
Are you willing to be both your own best friend and your own savior? Not one thing or any other person can really make things better or worse. It’s on you – always.

The only thing you really need to know is this. You aren’t just enough. You are more than enough, right now. You always have been. You always will be.

So, stop waiting.


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Lisa Hayes, The Love Whisperer, is an LOA Relationship Coach. She helps clients leverage Law of Attraction to get the relationships they dream about and build the lives they want. Lisa is the author of the newly released hit book, Score Your Soulmate and How to Escape from Relationship Hell and The Passion Plan.

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